C-section or cesarean section is marketed by word of mouth in prenatal
clinics. Elective cesarean without labor or medical necessity is gaining
popularity. Student obstetricians are thought that it is not unethical
to avoid bringing up the risks of surgical delivery. Even the higher
rate of maternal deaths after c-section is neglected, because it is
still an overall small number. Future mothers are not properly informed
about their options and the consequences of c-section (cesarean section).
Doctors do not mention the benefits and necessity of vaginal birth
and labor for the physiological and psychological development of the
new born and the mother.
Labor has a crucial role in the maturity of the newborn
baby. The labor contractions produce a rich cocktail of complex hormones
of love - Oxytocin and hormones of stress, called Catecholamine. The
surge of hormones clears the lung of the newborn, brings more blood
to the heart and brain, and mobilizes precious nourishing substances
which flood the cells. This enhances the transition of the baby from
the water environment into the air breathing world. Moreover, this
extraordinary hormone body experience changes the overall emotional
patterns of the mother. It prepares you for motherhood by increasing
your capacity for love and attachment. After completing the birth
process women feel very powerful and capable. Their mothering instinct
is alive and strong and their capacity to take care of the newborn
is increased.
On the other hand, the experience of c-section (cesarean),
even caused by medical reasons, is leaving the mother with a sense
of loss. The joy of having a child cannot wipe away her grief of missing
a substantial part of herself. Birth is shaping woman's personality.
It is contributing to her maturity and sense of self-worth. Having
cesarean, the woman is robbed of a very precious formative experience
that is central in her life. This brings great grief and feeling of
loss and separation from her child.
A friend of mine has shared with me the feeling of
her baby not belonging to her. The deprivation of actually experiencing
delivery and the sense of incompletion, as if the baby is still inside,
and the one in the world is not the same.
The attachment of the mother to her baby is strongly
influenced by the ability to feel that her baby is part of her, even
after birth. This is the magic produced by the hormones during vaginal
delivery. Your bonding with the newborn in the outer world gets part
during the ecstatic moment of the passage of the baby through your
cervix and the vagina. The third stage of labor is similar to the
act of conception and brings about physiological and psychological
changes in mother and baby.
Cesarean section (c-section) is a rescue for a minority
and should be kept in these limits. The world Health organization
suggests that cesareans are 1 in 10 births or 15% at most. However,
they are more than 30 %. Why this happening is is simple. Because
business goals are ruling over nature-led, evidence-based, experience-proven
practices.
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Moreover the marketing of a money-led c-section practice
is gaining acceptance by sympathetic appeal. Its promoted humanistic
value is touching the heart. All of this is allowed by us, consumers.
Why? Because it takes time to educate yourself. You have been thought
to consider doctors superhuman and to trust them. They were also thought
to consider surgical birth humanistic.
Those who not search the truth themselves, turn out
to be entrapped by the marketed "truths". On both sides - doctors
and patients there are true victims. The way out is to be honest with
ourselves, to be strong enough to face reality and follow through
with our decisions.
The informed choice is what we have a right to! But
the right is to do it yourself - to inform yourself, to take the responsibility
and to be in tune with nature.
Our bodies know what is best; being in tune will make
us understand if we need cesarean or vaginal birth.
If cesarean is a medical necessity, which happens in
5-10% of births, we need to accept it. We need to know the consequences
of c-section and reconnect with ourselves and the baby. The compassion
between women is important to resolving the unexpected and making
sense of ourselves after surgery. The time of relaxation spent with
the newborn and the breastfeeding are a wonderful way to fill the
gap of the incomplete birthing process, reunite with the newborn and
reconcile yourself to reality.
Let's not allow the marketing of money-led business
goals in birth mislead us, educate ourselves and other birthing options
and claim our rights to access to informed options. And if there is
a true birthing problem, let's celebrate the wonderful use of technology
and expertise in cesarean rescue after labor.
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