This selection from graphic childbirth clips shows the crowning of the baby. The coming of the baby makes us face our own pains from childhood. In childbirth and in parenting we experience the traumas we have had and try to find a solution.

When we live with resentment we attract the very same behavior we hate. Then we see the patterns of this behavior in our own way of treating our children. In the long run, it is far easier to forgive and move away from the pains of the past. Being able to forgive, you can achieve real freedom from your own childhood traumas.

As parents we need to forgive ourselves, and then you can forgive others. We cannot be perfect, and we unintentionally cause pain to our children. Being too good, or being too restrictive, we are making our children develop unwanted behavior along with all the mice things we do.

Forgiveness is about letting go, learning to accept what it is, completely and permanently. We recognize that what has happened has happened and it cannot dominate our life anymore. Carrying around the load of resentment is an enormous and unnecessary burden. The faster we are able to forgive, the lighter our burden is.

So in our preparation for childbirth let us try to forgive. You can forgive yourself, your parents, your partner, your doctors for previous childbirths you did not like, you can forgive even if you don’t know exactly who to forgive. This will make it really easy for you to allow yourself to have a miraculous childbirth.

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