A New Day - A New Life
With the rising of the sun we see the beauty of our newborn baby Yana.
Lotus birth is the practice of non-violence. It is gaining more
and more momentum nowadays, as parents realize the importance of birth
for the psychological development and health of children.
During my first birth, I have read about Lotus birth
and wished it for my newborn daughter. We have bought a special sieve,
where we put the placenta.
We kept the placenta in the sieve a little
higher than Gabbie, while she had her first breastfeeding. The blood
from the placenta quickly went down into the baby, providing her with
the most precious nutrition. Having had an unassisted home birth,
we did not rush to cut the umbilical cord. We waited for it to drain
itself. Little by little the red throbbing stalk connecting Gabbie
and the placenta became white. Gabbie was very calm and relaxed. She
is still very self-confident and attentive. (Still my first birth
was not such, which I hope the second one to be. When a doctor came,
she cut the umbilical cord. I am thankful that at least we had the
wisdom to postpone her coming at least an hour after the complete
birth. Yet it was probably not wise to transfer to hospital after
such a wonderful birth at home.)
Lotus birth is a choice of non-violence. Not only the
umbilical cord is not cut, it just withers away usually in the third
day. The child has the time to accustom to the world, without the
sudden breaking from this caring warm friend, it had in the womb for
nine months.
The placenta is part of the baby. The placenta begins
developing at implantation from the same source as the baby - the
blast cyst. The fetus relies on the placenta, not only for nutrition,
but also for gas exchange, waste removal, endocrine and immune support.
The correct development of the placenta is important for the development
of the embryo and fetus.
When born, the baby still relies on the placenta. Leaving
it attached to the baby after birth, you make a natural transition
to take place. There is no rush, no sudden severance, and no confusion.
The baby has the feel for the placenta, and at the same time discovers
in its own time the new source of love, warmth, nutrition in the mother.
The gradual attachment to the mother helps the detachment from the
placenta as it dries and naturally separates. The most precious nutrition,
hormones, immune support substances enter the baby body. Leaving the
placenta intact, you also keep the baby body from infection which
might appear in early cord cut.
All lotus born babies are more mature, quite and happy.
They are much more content, and faster maturing.
I myself embrace the notion of lotus birth for my current
birth. It seems the most natural practice. It was first conceived
in 1974 by Clair Lotus Day. She witnessed the way a mother Chimpanzee
left the placenta attached to the baby until it dropped off. Seeing
this, she thought it should not be harmful for a human baby and did
the same after the birth of her son.
Leaving the cord attached was a practice also cherished
by the Native Americans, the Thais. It was mentioned in Buddhist traditions as well.
Lotus birth is revived today as a practice of yoga
parents, and many others who sense the benefit for their newborn baby.
It has been practiced even in hospital settings, after Cesarean, or
for premature babies.
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